Monday, September 21, 2009
sometimes, we are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Heart-broken with Unpredictable Tragedy
Remember we had a great chat in MSN and FB last week. U said u will cook for me and teach me yoga
We can't afford to lose you, pls wake up! Remember i have promised to go over your place and play in the sea. I will, i really will go to terengganu when u recover. I always miss u and luv u.....
lots of luv,
ah beh (u used to call me)
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Ask a Virgo
I've been reading articles from california psychics and came across this article. *grin*
Ask a Virgo
They give great advice... why don't we listen?
by Red
You are having problems with your lover, and your Virgo friend listens patiently to the tale. Your boss is totally driving you crazy, and analytical Virgo assesses the situation fairly. Your best friend is ignoring you, and truthful Virgo tells you why. Virgo is one of the wisest signs - yet we never want to listen to the Virgos in our lives. Why is that?
Perfectionism
Virgo truly do strive for perfection in all things - including in the advice they give. This earthy sign has a knack for looking at things from all angles, and can quickly run several scenarios and possible outcomes to any given situation in the blink of an eye. Behind that calm exterior, they are weighing all of the facts, and looking for any missing pieces to the quandary or puzzle. They scrutinize every detail. When you go to a Virgo for help of any kind, your problem has just become their problem, and it is in their nature to worry. They don't want to steer you wrong! But many times when you ask for this information, you're not ready to hear it - because it means that if you have an honest assessment of a situation, you will then have to act on it.
Sound and serious
When you take your troubles to a Virgo, you can expect to walk away with a solution - but that doesn't mean you are going to like what you hear. Common sense and practicality are part of the core nature in a Virgo, and whether it's logical or not, they expect others to be blessed with these traits as well. So if you are being oblivious to your own faults or responsibilities - Virgo is going to let you know. And that isn't always a pleasant experience. This sign can be quite skeptical and critical, but not because they are trying to belittle you. They just hold others to high standards, though these are often lower than those they set for themselves.
Annoyingly right
When a Virgo gives advice, it tends to be as a well thought-out plan. Since they are trying to help you out, resist your urge to take a defensive stance. They may not have explained all the intricacies of their conclusions, because their only goal is to solve the problem at hand. If you decide to try and argue, you are opening the doors to an interesting debate. By the time you have finished venting your opinions, you may have only given them more ammunition to strengthen their case. As frustrating as it may be, Virgo has this nasty habit of being right!
So, why don't we listen?
Virgos are thinkers and do-ers. They don't talk simply to hear the sound of their own voices, or put off until tomorrow what should be done today. Unfortunately, many a Virgo has put their valuable time and effort into trying to solve the problems of others (and of the whole world), only to see things remain the same. From the Virgo point of view, it seems as if we just don't listen!
But we do hear you, Virgo, and we often have to eat crow and admit that you were right. Your hearts are golden, and few can deny that your advice is often succinct and sound. Yet being the stubborn people we are, there are times when we put your words of wisdom aside, and do things our own way. And you just have to accept that it is our path, not yours - even when we ask you for advice. Sure, many troubles could be avoided, or lessons could be more easily learned - if we'd only listen to our Virgo friends. Yet maybe we're not meant to go down that particular road.
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Personally, i perceive things in many different aspects. Most of the times i forecast and have an insight of a worst scenario. When things turn good, God bless; when things come the other way round, it's time to aware of our faults and flaws to be bear in mind, perhaps it's useful for the next attempt.
Yet, life goes on.
Expiry Date
7 years back, I can still remember vividly the excitement and heat of my first love. It was pure and my world just only have him. Romance is in the air. LOL. That was the past. Revisiting the past isn’t entirely a bad thing. It pretty much depends the reason you are revisiting it. Perhaps reminiscing the sense of nostalgia just for the purpose to aware of our faults of breaking up.
There were lots of ups and downs in between the time gap till now. I'm not going to revisit every single moment of time.
So, currently things have been difficult and tiring for awhile, therefore let's put it to a halt first. When negative emotions take charge of our life, things inexorably will go downhill and deteriorate until it finally devastates our daily routines and performance at work.
When you actually try to let go of the pain and move on from the incident, it is more difficult to hold a grudge. Why make life hard?
Friday, August 28, 2009
Tasteless
People enjoy themselves at this age, but i'm all alone staying in a computer lab to read and think and search. Is this what i want? Writing has always be my interest, but writing research papers is kinda suffering.
Sometimes, i feel intensely tired. I have been non-stop working towards a stable life, to be financially independent. Sometimes, i just hope to have a soul mate to cheer me up. I'm not longing for a marriage at this age perhaps of insecurity that embedded within myself all this while.
Yea.... at the moment, i'm on my way obtaining my goal - the completion of my master's degree.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Venus Enters Leo
Romance roars into action as Venus transits through Leo the lion from August 26 - September 19, 2009. It's all about taking a chance on love and expressing what's in your heart. It's time to be daring in your relationships.
Whether you're bursting with new passion for someone special, or need to bring up a problem with your sweetie, this influence will help you find the words, actions and courage to convey your feelings.
The lusty lion
Venus rules relationships, while Leo rules romance. Leo is a Fire sign, so it's not the ethereal kind of romance, but rather a passionate expression of love. This passion may be accompanied by willfulness and a high level of drama, however, so strive for a balanced perspective in your relationships. And because Leo craves attention, don't forget to express your appreciation to those who are closest to you.
Get creative
Venus also rules art and beauty, while Leo rules creativity - so expect a burst of creative energy during the next three weeks. You may suddenly get the urge to redecorate your bedroom, take an art class, plant an herb garden, throw a party, try a new recipe, start a journal, join a writing club or organize a charity event - whatever activity fires up your inner muse. The best way to access your creativity is to be in touch with your own heart.
Trouble ahead
A word of warning about August 26-27. If you find yourself unusually combative, stubborn or controlling, it's probably the abrasive Mercury-Mars-Pluto influence that's making troubling issues rise to the surface, so they can be resolved. Try to stay centered, and avoid getting drawn into unnecessary battles if you can help it. A more harmonious vibe will resume in a day or two.
Fire signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius)
Whether it's a relationship or a project you feel strongly about, expressing passion comes naturally to you. So Venus in Leo will ignite your inner fire, and inspire both your creativity and some hot, maybe even stormy, interactions. This influence is divine in the bedroom, but you may need to contain the fire if an argument arises. Watch willfulness. If you're solo, romance can be found through a creative or spiritual activity - such as a play, art opening or spiritual gathering. Taking a class may also bring a romantic prospect and inspire your creativity, too. Dare to be yourself!
Air signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius)
Socializing skyrockets during Venus in Leo. Both romance and friendships will be influential in your life. You'll be more inclined to spend time with people who share your interests. In other words, compatibility will be important to you. Commitment may be in the stars for solo Air signs, or at least you may have the opportunity to widen your social circle with some intriguing new friends. It might just be a friend who matches you up with someone fabulous! Look for romance during group gatherings, community events and while traveling. Networking online can bring in someone special as well. Communication is the key.
Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn)
Venus in Leo evokes your deepest desires. The sex will no doubt be fabulous, but you'll want it all - a merging of bodies, hearts, minds and souls. No halfway measures for you! You may feel vulnerable with this level of interaction, however, so you'll need some courage to inspire a deep connection. Healing old emotional wounds and dealing with the past will be necessary for relationship success. Heed your intuition, too, which will be especially strong. Single Earth signs can find romance through an old friend, family member or personal-growth activity (a meditation group, perhaps?). Be sure to spend some time alone, so you don't get emotionally overloaded.
Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces)
Your sensuality will be all fired up during Venus in Leo. Getting physical (think massage, exercise and good food and drink) will bring out your romantic side - to the delight of your partner! It's time to ground your naturally powerful emotions with some earthly pleasure. The danger of overindulging will be the challenge, so you may need to rein in some of your eating, drinking and spending. If you're solo, romance can be found through a colleague, work project or health-related activity - maybe via a gym flirtation. On a practical note, be on the lookout for moneymaking opportunities and ways to advance your career.
However you choose to enjoy Venus in Leo during the next few weeks, be sure to share your heart with those you love.