Sunday, February 14, 2010

Valentine's Day = CNY

Today is Valentine's Day, but we didn't celebrate because today is first day of chinese new year. Really hope to see him around today, but unfortunately we were apart from each other.

Since we commited to each other, we have never been separated for so many days, this is the first time he is away from me for 4 days.

May God bless us for a blissful relationship ever after.....

Thursday, February 11, 2010

belief

i don't understand why people not only want to make her/his life hard and also make other suffer from what she/he is doing. I deeply believe, when we have someone or something that make our life good, i'll always treasure it. I always believe in faith and fate. These two criteria brings true love. True love needs mutual understanding and also chemistry. There are lots of times that we need to read one's body language and facial expression. This is not an easy way. If we think what we did is good for another one, we are just simple dominate the person. Jealousy is closely related with over possessiveness.When you trust one person, why do you want to be jealous if he/she is mingling around with his/her friends? When a guy/gal feels that his partner is not suitable for him/her anymore, why does he/she keep quiet and let the disaster entangling him? There are lots of questions spinning in my head upon the cases i came across.

Recently, i attended a good friend's engagement party, she does not have a choice to choose his partner and all are arranged by her parents. She comes from a wealthy family, but she does not have freedom. Her marriage is just a gambling, and i always pray for her victory in this gamble.

I always believe that when a man loves a woman or vice versa, he/she will not physically and mentally hurt him. I dont understand what there is such creature that fond of hurting her/his partner as if it's her/his hobby. is quarreling a hobby for them?? I don't know. If you feel there is no love anymore, do not pretend and stay with your partner.